Losing is sometimes an opportunity to more discover yourself. You sometimes lose because you need to improve more. It's not because they are better than you. They are more talented than you.
Well what I can say is that maybe they are better in that field of learning. Losing is more painful at first but it's just the same as winning. It is pain but it is also experience. Many put themselves that when they lose, they commit unwanted behavior but you should not. There are too much opportunities for you and for you my tips for a better understanding in the word losing.
1. Do not put in your chest and in your whole life the word losing. Losing isn't an option for us to believe that we can't be better persons. Anyone or anything rather that we compete with, either it maybe a physical or a mental, we should be saying that this is a game. Its a practice for me to know if I am in a good condition or not. Don't blame yourself for that. It's just a game. It should be treated with fun and focus.
2. Say to yourself that you can move on. As a representative to my school in the competition, we lost. This is always the first step to success. We practice,and then we learn and discover something. I am always inspired of this topic because of I experienced it. If we lose, we should think of ourselves that we can move on or else, you're stocked in life. Move on so that you can still do many things that will make you happy and more interested.
3. It's always the beginning. We watch TV shows and when a runner up didn't win, his/her family says, "That's just a beginning." I mean in every wall opens a door. If we lose there, there will be and be a chance for you to show up and be the best. We lose but still, there's a chance of still nourishing yourself for you to be more developed. Its always a beginning, and losing isn't a thing to be sad of. It should be just a good reaction because you have this thing on yourself that you should think that "It's the beginning, let's move on."
4. Don't think that everybody will not like you. After losing, we realize that our reputation will be destroyed. Somebody will still console you and that's what's good about it. Actually, that's really kind of sad to lose, but no one will really get mad. They will just ask you what happened but it will be fine. They do not insult you anyhow.
5. When you lose, know your S and W. Strength and weakness is tested in a contest. It's always tested. Know them and try to practice them, so that next time, you will not fail about it.
That's for me tips for you when you lose. Its not exactly written by an expert but totally, this is a message and a tip for my friends that lost that experienced something resembling to me.
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